He sent me a Facebook message this past Friday that I briefly read, but closed because I was with iMusician. I didn’t know if I was expecting any more communication with him, but I do know it wasn’t fair of me to stop responding to him completely after some of the things we shared together.
Hey Serendipitous Love. I won’t contact you again after this…I guess I’m just kind of curious (if you’re willing to say)…what happened? I thought things were going pretty well, and then you suddenly just stopped responding. I hope I didn’t do something to upset you. I’m actually really curious if me bringing up that Lumineer’s song sent the completely wrong signal… I realized after I mentioned that, that the words to that song, and the implication of me saying I would sing it to you, would probably make me seem like a stage 5 clinger. I actually hadn’t even paid attention to the words until I went back to listen to the song again later…ugh hah…woops.
Anyway, I hope to hear from you, even if just to say it wasn’t working out. If not, best of luck…It was really nice meeting you and spending some time together!
I decided I would write him back today. He deserves some sort of explanation. I know I was always dying to know what happened with my other suitors.
I know it wasn’t fair for me to just stop responding. I should have said something earlier but I really didn’t know what to say. I am very sorry to keep you wondering, but truthfully I have better connected with someone else and I’m liking where it’s going so far.
I really enjoyed my time with you and you really are a great guy. I actually loved that you said you were going to sing that song to me. It was sweet. I did not think you were a clinger at all!! There will be a girl for you that will swoon over that kind of stuff. I mean come on, I gave you a song I liked and you had it ready for me like a half hour later. Loved that. While I am the type to swoon over stuff like that, things between you and me in general didn’t seem right. I guess I can’t explain it.
I hope this message finds you well. Thank you for giving me the chance to explain and being understanding. I really am a nice person and don’t want to hurt anyone. I appreciate you reaching out and best of luck to you.